• Couples Retreat – Save Your Marriage

    Posted on January 5, 2011 by admin in indiana.

    Almost 50% of all marriages end in divorce. But 100% of marriages have difficulties. Many people think it is simply a coin-toss on whether a marriage succeeds or fails. They are wrong. You CAN make the difference! Success or failure is in your hands.couples marriage retreat affair/infidelity recovery, counseling for couples, program and seminars, workshops indianapolis, indiana

    All couples do well during easy times, but the measure of successful couples is how well they get through the inevitable hard times. Perhaps you’d like better ways to work through the recurring hard spots. Maybe you’d like your partner to understand you better, or you’d like to better understand your partner.

    Usually a clearer, kinder, more accurate understanding of your self and your partner will improve the mood in your relationship, and will give you a much better chance for getting the love and happiness you want.

    This retreat is useful to new couples who want to ensure the on-going success of their relationship; for couples who’ve been together a while and would like to enhance and/or “sparkup” the relationship a little; and for couples who are really struggling.

    Study after study is showing the damaging effects of stress. And nowhere is there more stress than in an unhappy marriage! We stand in front of family and friends and make a promise to stay together. Some people decide to break that promise. Others struggle through.

    In the end, there are really three options…

    • Option #1: Leaving things as they are, suffering through (continued unhappiness).
    • Option# 2: Give up and move on (separation and divorce). Or
    • Option# 3: Discover the secret of transforming your relationship!

    Neither 1  or 2 are good options.

    The Solution:

    The only real option is 3, transforming your marriage! But without the proper tools and understandings, transforming your marriage is difficult. How many times have you tried to make things different? How many books have you read, discussions have you had, thoughts and prayers you’ve entertained, all aimed at changing the relationship?

    So, What Can we Do For You?

    A marriage can be restored, developed, nurtured, and transformed! I tell you that as someone who sees the “miracles” on a daily basis. Note that I put miracles in quotations. Miracles are thought to come out of the blue. But in the cases I see, it is because one, the other, or both decide to do something about it. In other words, the miracle happens because action is taken.

    Before I Tell You Why You Should Attend  our Marriage Retreat Boot Camp… Here’s Why You SHOULDN’T Attend:

    Our marriage retreat boot camp is not for everyone. There are some people who should NOT involve themselves in this program. If this is you, please move on to other resources:

    • First, if you have already decided to divorce, and this is just to make your spouse or yourself feel better, this program is not for you. You will make no progress, and you will only end up having to live a lie, one of my “no-no’s.” If you are thinking about divorce, but are undecided, this program IS DEFINITELY for you. If divorce is not an option, but something has to change, this program IS DEFINITELY for you. If you have an OK marriage, but it is not quite what you want it to be, this program IS DEFINITELY for you. If you have a good marriage, but want to make it great, this program IS DEFINITELY for you. If you have a great marriage, but want to keep it up, this program IS DEFINITELY for you.
    • Second, if you are looking for a “no effort shortcut” to marital bliss, this is not for you. In fact, that doesn’t exist. Minimal effort is usually what got people into trouble in the first place. Notice, I did not say “work” but “effort.” I hear people saying they need to work on their relationship. Boy, is work a dull proposition. It usually means no imagination and no fun. This process will not be work, but it will take effort. If you are not ready to make an effort, this program is not for you.
    • In addition to the note above about having already decided to divorce, if you are involved in an affair that you are unwilling to end, this program is NOT for you. You are needing to make a choice and make a change. If, however, you or your spouse has had an affair, and you are wanting to heal and reclaim your marriage, this program IS DEFINITELY for you.
    • Finally, if you are unwilling to take responsibility for your marriage and its future, this program is not for you. Taking responsibility is different than accepting blame or fault. Blame and fault-finding are about what has happened. Responsibility is about where you are going.

    Why Attend a Couples Retreat?

    The truth is couples learn more and progress faster in a more intensive counseling session like our marriage retreat boot camp. Clients who begin therapy by attending 1African American Online Marriage Counselors session weekly, or 1 session bi-weekly, can easily lose the momentum that naturally occurs. There is a greater tendency at the outset to continue old habits, avoid connection, feel discouraged and even cancel appointments.

    If you feel “stuck” and want to kick start the couples counseling process, if you both have busy work schedules, or if you are overwhelmed with elder-parent or child care responsibilities, or if you just want to experience personal growth, our Couples Retreat Boot Camp is by far the best, and most cost effective way to move your relationship forward. This intensive retreat experience will help you work through areas of disconnect and enrich an already emotionally-committed relationship.

    Couples retreat boot camp will give your relationship a jump start and the opportunity to move forward with more understanding, new skills, and renewed hope.

    What Happens During a Marriage Retreat Boot Camp?

    This marriage retreat is designed not to be just a “fix.” It is designed to energize your relationship by giving you the tools and techniques to transform your marriage.

    Here’s what you’ll learn in our weekend marriage retreat

    • Change Mindsets. This is foundational. How you view each other and how you change that view are the beginnings of change. I’ll show you how. I’ll give you a new model that will help you understand your mate.
    • Meeting Needs. Marriages begin a downward spiral when we forget our own needs, and forget to meet the needs of our spouse. Claim your own needs, and learn how to discover your spouse’s needs.
    • Being A Team. Why is it that the one person we should see as our ally begins to be seen as the enemy? More importantly, we will look at how to become a team, and how this is transformational to a marriage.
    • Identifying And Breaking Patterns. We all get into ruts. Usually, they sneak up behind us, and before you know it, we are deeply entrenched, and don’t know how to get out. I’ll help you identify the destructive patterns and help you to change them.
    • Communication. Communication problems in relationships often erode the passion and hope that we first feel when we fall in love. The communication techniques that I teach will help you quickly revive that passion, and reconnect with your partner. Building trust in your relationships is an important focal point of the retreat, so that you can feel safe enough to truly understand your partner, and once again appreciate them fully.
    • Take Home Toolkit. Sometimes traditional talk therapy will not help if your relationship is dead in the water. What you need is tools. Weekly sessions typically cannot provide these. But at the retreat, the emphasis is to learn a powerful assortment of tools to make positive changes. You will get results-oriented, versatile and highly effective coaching. And you will take home new tools that will keep you growing on a positive track.

    Okay What’s The Cost For This Marriage Retreat Boot Camp:

    A Couples Retreat at our beautiful cabins, nested in the woods includes two full days of intensive couple-to-couple therapy, plus a follow-up call after the Retreat. Your total investment for our intensive marriage retreat boot camp including excellent lodging is only $650.00 per couple.

    This price is an early bird special only for couples who register before the end of this month. After that the price will gradually increase every week. We also offer private one-on-one marriage retreats. Private Retreats are when you and your spouse are the only ones there at the retreat. Couples can choose from 3, 4, or 5 Days. For specific cost of private retreats call us at (765) 319-7885.

    Watch the video below for a virtual tour of the property including interior and exterior view of the cabins surrounded by woods. Our retreat is conveniently located in Kokomo, Indiana just 45 minutes north of Indianapolis.

    Registration/ Payment:

    Space is limited so make sure to reserve your spot today. We prefer to focus on a smaller size group to gain more ground and establish a deeper connection. Unfortunately we are not able to hold dates without a deposit. To secure your Marriage Retreat date, a deposit of $200 is required at the time of scheduling. The other half is due 10 days before your Marriage Retreat.

    If you’d like to register your spot right now, pleas fill out the Pre-session Intake Form. I will then review it and follow-up with a phone call. If you have any questions, please call me right now at (765-319-7885) or Click Here To Email Me.

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