Infidelity Counseling – Therapy After An Affair, Counseling For Couples

The truth is out and the pain is excruciating. He has made love to another woman. You are crushed, enraged. You blame him.infidelity after the affair, online counseling, overcoming infidelity, infidelity marriage, infidelity marriage counseling marriage, counselors marriage therapy, counseling for couples, marriage help, counseling infidelity You blame the other woman, then you blame yourself.

You feel inadequate. You want to leave him but you still love him. How can you live with yourself if you stay? Can you ever trust him again? He tries to console you but it only makes things worse. You want to know the sexual details but you cannot bear to listen. You feel humiliated, betrayed and abandoned.

After the truth comes out, the unfaithful partner will insist that it was a one time thing, that it meant nothing to him, and that it had nothing to do with the marriage.  He is wracked with feelings of sorrow and guilt and defends himself with explanations.  His apologies seem woefully inadequate, to her, especially after all the lies.

Healing requires more than just apologies. He needs to understand the seriousness of his actions; he needs to take responsibility for his behavior and the pain that it has caused.  Perhaps most importantly, both partners need to recognize that the infidelity is almost always a symptom of a much larger problem. For the relationship to be saved, trust must be re-established, and this takes time.

Couples can recover from infidelity if they are willing to work on their relationship, despite the anger and hurt that they feel now. First, they need to recognize that they have unresolved issues,  as well as the infidelity itself.  With help, they can move past the pain and the blame and start working on the issues that led up to the infidelity.

Many couples can and do survive the crisis of infidelity. It is possible to start again, but it takes time and a willingness to learn new ways of relating within the relationship. Partners can build a stronger, deeper relationship out of the rubble of their emotional destruction, but they can rarely do it alone. The hurt is just too great.

A therapist can steer couples away from the devastating cycle of the hurt partner being locked into a role of repeatedly blaming and questioning while the partner who strayed being locked into a pattern of feeling guilty, defending and avoiding. The pattern of this cycle often spreads into other issues until the whole relationship becomes frozen into that pattern. Eventually, the couple often breaks up or slowly drifts apart.

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